Taurus women are a rare and unique breed. They’re strong, sensual, peaceful, and they know what they want. In life and in love, they typically take after the bull sign they’re born under. These traits carry over pretty well to the bedroom, but knowing these traits will give you an edge when you’re getting to know your Taurus woman.
Getting to Know Your Taurus Woman
Taurus women aren’t hard to please. As is befitting of an Earth sign, they’re laid-back, strong-willed, and easy to understand. They have distinct wants and needs, so as long as you’re willing to work with those, your Taurus woman will never take you by surprise. This doesn’t mean she can’t be exciting, however!
That being said, though, a Taurus woman tends to be a slower type of sensual. Taurus women like romance and acts of affection, and they loved to be adored and attended to. This might seem like asking a lot, but a Taurus woman’s self-assuredness and deeply sensual nature will make you want to attend to her all the more.
A Taurus woman in the bedroom is like a queen on a throne. She likes your eyes to be on her at all times, and she appreciates (and expects) lavishing affection and love. However, she’s still a benevolent queen, too. If you take care of her, she will return that care to you one hundredfold.
This attitude in the bedroom reflects her philosophies in life, too. A Taurus woman is sure of herself, and she takes life slowly. She’s laid-back, and while she’s slow to anger, she’ll defend her convictions with pure strength and tenacity, just like the bull itself.
As long as you know your Taurus woman’s innate personality, you won’t have any trouble translating that to what she’s like in the bedroom. Just keep in mind that, while Taurus women can be forceful and powerful outside the bedroom, that side of her tends to be reserved for the outside only. She tends to show her sweeter, gentler side for personal activities.
Taurus Woman Traits
As a general rule, the Taurus woman has several traits that will follow her in life and in the bedroom. While you should be as aware of her personality traits as possible, these specific traits tend to be the ones that will affect your bedroom life the most.
Laziness
Unfortunately, you’ll quickly notice that your Taurus woman can sometimes get a bit lazy in bed. This doesn’t mean she’s not an active participant, but she’ll enjoy it when you take the reins and do most of the work.
If you want to involve your Taurus woman more in what you do in bed, a good strategy is to try and tempt her into it! While she likes to be waited on, your Taurus woman won’t pass up the opportunity to try something that makes you happy. If you’d like to involve her in something new, let her know – you just might convince her!
The discerning factor here is that a Taurus woman isn’t as likely to investigate things that might interest you. This doesn’t mean she doesn’t enjoy doing something that you like, because she definitely does! However, for the most part, it’s out of sight, out of mind for your Taurus woman.
Hints
Hints are another thing to avoid with your Taurus woman. Regardless of how unsubtle you think your signs are, a strong, proud Taurus woman won’t take them. Part of this is because she won’t be looking out for them, but also because she’d refuse to accept them if she did notice, too.
A Taurus woman will only accept the things you say if you tell them to her straight. Her ability to pick up and take hints is low, and even when she does notice them, she has no desire to entertain such games. A Taurus woman doesn’t have time for that.
As her quiet, sedentary nature might suggest, Taurus women are very matter-of-fact. They’re not one for big displays of affection, lewd hints, or any funny business. While she doesn’t mind praise and declarations of love, she always prefers actions over words. If you can’t seem to figure out what to say to your Taurus woman to satisfy her, consider trying to show her instead.
In the Bedroom
If you’re in a relationship with a Taurus woman, it’s true that she will expect sex. She will assume that you’ll want it, and her lazy nature will mean that she prefers you to do much of the work for much of the time. However, this doesn’t mean she’ll be an inactive participant, either! Just like the bull she takes after, a Taurus woman can be very passionate when she’s sufficiently motivated.
As such, if you want to see a more substantial display of passion from your Taurus woman, it’ll be up to you to light a fire under her. Like a bull, she tends to be slow to get moving, but once you figure out what makes her tick, it’s not hard to push all the right buttons.
It might take a bit more to rile her up than some of the other signs, but a Taurus woman returns that in passion, grace, beauty, and strength ten-fold. However, if you’re not willing to put in that little bit of extra work for your woman, or if you expect her to take the lead much of the time, a Taurus woman may not be for you.
This doesn’t mean that a Taurus woman doesn’t like to take the lead in the bedroom. On the contrary, she enjoys being in control. However, she doesn’t want to be in control all the time, and she’s uninterested in the level of responsibility that comes with that.
Keep in mind that the reason your Taurus woman takes a while to warm up isn’t because of disinterest. While they may be slow to get going, once a Taurus woman has that momentum, she can keep going for a long, long time. It’s likely that she may even be able to outlast you several times over!
Patience
As you probably know, Taurus women are deeply attuned to the Earth. Earth is their element, and as such, they’re sturdy, steady, dependable, and predictable. However, like a large rock or boulder, Taurus women can be a bit immobile and flexible. They can take a little while to get started with bedroom activities, too.
Like we mentioned above, if you’re not willing to put in the time necessary to light your Taurus woman’s fire, then she may not be a good match for you. A Taurus woman doesn’t do things quickly, after all. You’ll need a healthy dose of patience to deal with a Taurus woman, or else you’ll end up feeling bored relatively quickly.
Taurus women aren’t without passion or love to give. In fact, the real case is far from it! Like the Earth, your Taurus woman has a thick outer crust that you must pierce, but underneath that, she’s all boiling magma. Once you’ve seen the passion that a Taurus woman has to offer, you’ll be hooked!
Stoicism
A Taurus woman is her own person in every way. She’s strong, stoic, self-sufficient, and more independent than just about any other sign. As such, passion willingly given from a Taurus woman is a rare gift; it’s uncommon for people she doesn’t know to excite her, and even rarer for her to share those feelings with others.
However, a Taurus woman isn’t one who will ever be head over heels for you. She’s not the type to wrap herself around your finger, wonder where you are all day, or become clingy or desperate. Instead, she tends to have this effect on the men who are attracted to her. A Taurus woman is strong and independent, and if a man doesn’t do or have what she wants in a partner, she won’t hesitate to look somewhere else.
This can make it a bit hard to catch a Taurus woman’s eye. While Taurus women aren’t the types to be nit-picky, they do have high standards, and those standards rarely budge.
Wooing a Taurus Woman
Here’s one thing you should always keep in mind when you have your eye on a Taurus woman: she likes to be wooed. A Taurus woman will never succumb to cheesy pick-up lines, lewd suggestions, or half-baked attempts at seduction. A Taurus woman’s number-one priority is romance.
When we mean romance, we mean cheesy romance, too. While we already mentioned that Taurus women aren’t the types to like extravagant public displays, extravagant private displays are a different matter. You can never set the mood too much with a Taurus woman. Go the whole nine yards – roses, candles, low lights, romantic music, and, hopefully, a delicious home-cooked dinner beforehand.
If you think you can woo a Taurus woman by putting anything but your full effort into it, you’re mistaken. A sharp Taurus woman has a nose for romance, and not just in her relationship, either. She will respond in kind to the effort you put into wooing her.
Connection
While Taurus women do well on their own – they thrive on independence, after all – they crave a connection with their partner just as much as any other sign. While you’re wooing her, make sure to do things that let her know that you want to connect with her as much as she wants to with you.
Do keep in mind, however, that this Earth sign’s outer crust can come into play here, too. Taurus women may decide to hide parts of themselves from you until you reach a certain level of intimacy. You may have to coax her to open up a bit before you get to see her in all her glory.
Some of the best things to do with a Taurus woman to foster a romantic connection with her include:
- Looking into her eyes
- Caressing her sensually
- Giving her a long massage
- Doing something before you’re asked
The best way to connect with your Taurus woman is to make sure she knows that she is genuinely and truly loved. A Taurus woman is always a sucker for a real romantic connection! Do keep in mind, though, that Taurus women have a sixth sense for connections, as well. If you’re thinking of trying to fib your way into a connection with a Taurus woman, think again!
Temper
Like the bull their signs follow, Taurus, both men and women, have a sharp temper. Like a strong, slow-moving cow, Taurus women tend to be slow to anger and easygoing. However, if you pester her, she can change this temperament on a dime, too!
This temper will be your greatest ally in the bedroom. While you don’t want to make a Taurus woman truly angry in the bedroom – her passion is connected to her anger, after all – you do want to light a fire underneath her instead. When you succeed in doing this, you’ll see a fiery, warm, passionate side to your Taurus woman that wasn’t initially visible from the surface.
However, the Taurus woman’s temper is something that you should be well aware of outside of the bedroom, too. While most Taurus women will give you an initial warning when you rub them the wrong way, pursue that lead at your own peril. While they might seem stoic and slow to anger most of the time, if you press her buttons, she can turn into a wild, raging bull faster than you might realize.
Pleasing the Taurus Woman in Bed
As you saw in this article, Taurus women aren’t much of a mystery in bed. They’re easy to understand, but the passion beneath their predictable exterior could surprise just about anyone. They don’t show their true colors right away, after all; a true Taurus woman prefers to try peace first and foremost, then try any other strategies afterward.
As long as you keep her desire to be wooed in mind, you shouldn’t have any trouble pleasing your Taurus woman, both in bed and in everyday life!
