Texting is an essential part of landing that date as well as getting a woman interested in you. It is the ultimate way to create attraction without having to be in front of a woman. But if you do it wrong, you can easily say and do the wrong things, send the wrong message, and scare a woman away.
So, make it easy on yourself and learn as much about texting women as you can before you even think about sending another text.
The First Text: Keep It Simple, But Effective
Natasha Abrahams wrote on a post on TSBmag.com that is straightforward but helpful when it comes to the first text.
It literally takes you by the hand, helps you create the perfect first text from opening the message to closing it – and tells you why it is the perfect first text. In short, if you want a straightforward way to send a woman that first text, this is it.
Keep in mind her point about using a name in the text. It makes it more personal, which is a good thing when you are trying to make a connection with a woman!
What Not To Text: If You Don’t Want To Lose Her
I’ve talked about this on this blog. If you text the wrong things, you will ruin your chances with a woman. Things can be misread, you can annoy her, and you can piss her off. Whether you know it or not, words are powerful and can send a positive or negative message, depending on what you say, how you say it, and how she interprets it.
An article on Men’s Fitness by Christine Robertson talks about things you should NOT text to a woman. It has some really good insight in it that will increase your texting knowledge bank, such as why you shouldn’t leave simple text messages. You will want to read right to the number 10 on this list and follow these guidelines seriously.
Another article on the Art of Charm is a good read too. It focuses more on the texting aspect itself than the words in the text. The article discusses 5 common mistakes guys make when it comes to texting girls. Number 5 is something you absolutely have to remember every step of the way. If you don’t, you could end up in the friend zone very quickly, which I’m assuming is NOT where you want to be.
How To Build Attraction Through Text
Want to make her stop in the middle of a concert and read your text? Of course you do!
The right text can build attraction. Some people think you shouldn’t try to build attraction through text – but that’s only if you are really bad with your words. The truth is that with the right text messages, you can develop a really good base of attraction before you meet up, which will make the first date, second date, or any date much more interesting.
Check out this article on Social Sage. Point number 4, about imagery – not video, is so true! It is a great way to evoke a woman’s interest and build attraction towards you. You will stand out in her mind and keep you on her mind until the next date.
Remember though, you don’t want to include anything in the picture that will cause her to imagine things that turn her off. For instance, don’t include a bunch of girls drinking around you – that will have the opposite effect from what you want! Keep the image positive.