Finding a compatible romantic partner isn’t an easy process. Even someone whose company you enjoy and whose personality and drive you respect may not be a good fit for you in the long term. Astrological compatibility is one way of determining how well a long-term relationship between two people will work out.
For Virgo man and Aquarius woman, it seems as though opposites may very well attract. However, long-term pairings between these signs are seen as less common and unusual. It is possible to make them work, but both parties need to enter into the relationship very focused on the challenges ahead.
How Aquarius Women Interact with the World
For many people, the Water Bearer sign, which includes those born between January 20th and February 18th can be summed up in a single word: weird. Aquarians are known for being quirky and incredibly spontaneous. Overall, while they may tend to carefully analyze situations, they also make decisions quickly. This can lead others to perceive them as flighty or irresponsible.
In reality, Aquarius women are flexible when it comes to the future. They have deep-seated independent streaks, which dovetail perfectly with their original and creative thoughts. They experience a desire to serve that leads some to view them as humanitarians. However, they can also seem aloof or perfectionistic.
Aquarius Is a Quirky, Spontaneous Sign
They tend to adjust well to rapidly changing situations, making them the astrological embodiment of the “manic pixie dream girl” popularized in romantic comedies. In that sense, Aquarius women can actually be quite compatible with Virgo men, who may need to be pulled out of themselves and reminded to see the beauty in unexpected things in their life.
Going with the flow and having wild adventures are both priorities for women born under the Aquarius sign. Unfortunately, that attitude and approach to life can directly conflict with the pedantic and organized lifestyle most Virgo men enjoy. What some other signs may view as exciting or adventurous, Virgos may simply see as disorganized or chaotic.
The Aquarian Focus on Ideas Can Be a Draw for Virgo Men
The free-spirited and idealistic nature of the Aquarius woman lends itself toward progressive thought. The average Aquarius woman is likely consumed by brilliant ideas, whether these relate to works of art they want to create or their analysis of the world around them. In that sense, Virgos, which are known to be very analytical and uncompromising, can be a great fit for the Aquarius woman.
A Virgo man will always have the ability to analyze ideas brought up by an Aquarius woman. Unfortunately, as Aquarius woman tend to dislike those who disagree with them, the Virgo man must tread carefully, especially if he does not agree with a concept posited by the Aquarius woman he is pursuing.
Similar Senses of Social Responsibility Can Lead to Compatibility
In some senses, a woman born under the Aquarius sign is an optimistic idealist. She seeks to bring out the best in others and to create a world that is safer, fairer, and more beautiful world. Her idealism may lead her to overextend herself in the hopes of helping others are bringing about a better future.
Driven by a sense of altruism and humanitarianism, the Aquarius woman is likely to engage in volunteer activities. Virgo man may find that appealing, as their self-identities are also deeply rooted in service to others. Giving back will be important to both people in this relationship, which can lead to common ground and shared passions.
Aquarius Women Tend to Need Freedom
As an air sign, an Aquarius woman refuses to let anyone, or anything tie her down. Whether it’s frequent travel or simply the desire to maintain an erratic schedule, and Aquarian woman prioritizes her personal freedom and independence above almost anything else. She doesn’t want to have to explain her decisions or life to anyone else.
That can be a source of contention for strict and structured Virgo. A Virgo man may have difficulty relating to the needs of an Aquarius woman when it comes to freedom and personal space. They may also view an Aquarius woman as a source of chaos, rather than of opportunity.
Understanding the Innate Traits of Virgo Men
Virgo men, like Aquarius women, all differ from one another. However, these men born between August 23rd and September 23rd tend to share certain traits that impact how they interact with the world, especially in romantic relationships. Developing an understanding of how Virgo men interact with the world can help them and the women who love them better facilitate a strong partnership.
Virgos Want a Rational, Logical World
One of the best-known innate qualities of the Virgo man is his analytical nature. Virgo men are driven by a desire to understand the world around them. They will carefully consider people and situations before taking action or making decisions. In short, a Virgo man needs to understand the rules and limitations of the world and their position in it.
This approach often directly conflicts with how an Aquarius woman will live her life. Her free-spirited nature will clash with the pedantic observation of rules and careful consideration common in Virgo males. The two will need to find a compromise regarding decision-making if they hope to sustain long-term compatibility.
Virgo man may find the unpredictable nature of an Aquarius woman to be frustrating. No matter how well they feel like they know their partner, she will likely always find a way to surprise him. That sounds of unpredictability can make a Virgo man feel unstable and unsafe in a relationship, which can undermine the potential benefits of the complementary personality traits that an Aquarian and a Virgo bring to a relationship.
Slow Relationship Building Is Best for Virgos
The analytical nature of a Virgo’s thought processes does not lend itself to making quick decisions. Wow and Aquarius woman may be asked to make a rash decision, such as eloping in Vegas, a Virgo man will almost never jump into a relationship in the same manner.
However, given the Aquarius woman’s love of Independence and freedom, she may also be loath to quickly commit to another person. That can actually be a source of compatibility.
The Aquarius woman can continue to experience the freedom of an early relationship, while the Virgo man has the time he needs to decide if this relationship is one that will last for the rest of his life. However, the Aquarius woman could struggle if she feels intensely in love with a Virgo man who simply isn’t ready to commit. Her flexibility and patience can actually hurt her in this scenario, as she could devote a large amount of time to a man who ultimately won’t choose her.
Virgos May Not Understand the Emotions and Motives of Aquarius Women
Virgo and Aquarius are often described as complementary signs. They have a few overlapping qualities, which include the desire for service and social betterment, as well as a strong sense of ambition. For the most part, the signs have very different approaches to life and love.
Where the Virgo is considered and methodical, an Aquarian is likely to be impulsive and led by emotion. Virgo men may have a hard time analyzing and understanding the Aquarius women they love. That can result in conflict within the relationship, as Virgos like all things to be known and understood.
Intelligence and Communication Can Provide Common Ground
The average Aquarius woman also has a deep-rooted intellect that can work well with a Virgo. What is important is that the two must find a way to communicate and relate to one another. They have to establish boundaries regarding respecting each other’s approach to making decisions and conquering the challenges that life throws at them.
Provided that they can develop a foundation of mutual respect and open communication, a Virgo and an Aquarian can overcome the differences and how they view and interact with the world. The Aquarius will need to offer more explanation than she is used to, and the Virgo may have to accept an inability to predict the choices of his partner.
Experimental Virgos Can Have Great Chemistry with Creative Aquarians
While Virgos are known for deliberate decision making and adherence to rules, they also embrace experimentation and learning new things. In no area of their life is this as obvious as it is in the realm of physical affection. Virgos may take some time to warm up to others, but they can be quite sexually adventurous once they find someone they love.
That goes very well with the Aquarian tendency toward adventurous impulsivity in the bedroom. Anything a Virgo man wants to try; an Aquarius woman is likely willing to consider. Provided that they focus on consent and comfort, a Virgo man and an Aquarius woman can have a very satisfying physical relationship.
Virgo Men and Aquarius Women Are a Case of Opposites Attract
The disparate approaches to decision-making and life held by an Aquarius woman and a Virgo man do not mean any incompatibility. After all, people love to say that opposites attract. The spontaneity of an Aquarius woman can be the perfect balance for the methodical approach to life most Virgos have.
Similarly, the grounded nature of a Virgo’s personality can balance the creative energy of an Aquarius woman. These two can find love and make a relationship last, provided they are both willing to invest time and effort.