The difficult part here is there are oodles of logical explanations as to why he isn’t texting you back. On the flip side, he could be distracted with other gals and just leading you on.
Maybe he has had a family emergency or he broke his phone.
Perhaps he accidentally deleted your number or had to turn off his data and doesn’t have easy access to wifi?
Seriously, there are a million reasons as to why he hasn’t texted you back, some good and some bad.
Top Tips When He Doesn’t Text Back for Days
Tip One: Never Lose Your Cool
You should never flip out if he hasn’t texted you back. The worst thing you can do when he doesn’t text you back is react. That could be exactly what he’s looking for.
Just play it cool and understand that people have lives and sometimes they don’t have their phone attached to their hip. Maybe he’s sleeping or having a hot bath. He could be at an event or visiting his family.
You just don’t know, so please do yourself a favor and don’t react, at least initially.
Tip Two: Cease Firing with the Text Messages
This one totally drives me up the wall. It really is annoying when you haven’t answered a text message and when you finally get to your device, you see there are 10 more to follow. Don’t make this mistake. It comes across as needy and insecure.
Even if this is the case, you don’t ever want him to know this. One text please and then leave it alone, for your own sanity and his.
Tip Three: Move Forward with the Rest of Your Life
Don’t let a non-response to a text message handcuff you. Continue doing what you do in life so the focus isn’t on waiting for that particular ringing noise that signals he’s replied back to your message. That is such a waste of time, not to mention it’s a little creepy.
Keep yourself busy and before you know it, there will probably be a text waiting for you from him. That’s when you put the ball in your court instead of being controlled by his slow reaction time.