If you have been, never again underestimate the power of eye contact when trying to pick up or attract women. It lets women know that you are interested in them and that you are listening to them, and it creates an energy between the two of you when you hold eye contact for a few seconds, thanks to the processes that take place in your body.
Eye Contact Encourages Love Chemicals To Be Made
It doesn’t seem like much. Looking at someone else’s eyes seems like it shouldn’t really do anything emotional, but as most of us can feel when we make eye contact – it does.
Research has shown that when you hold eye contact with someone you like for a few seconds, they can produce chemicals, such as phenylethylamine (PEA) in their body that give them the sensation of love! In other words, eye contact with a woman could cause her to feel love towards you – or at least the sensation while she looks at you.
This is likely why romantic couples often stare into each other’s eyes. They are producing a whole bunch of chemicals in each other that strengthens their loving emotional bond.
So, remember this the next time you are talking to a woman. Make eye contact, think about your attraction towards her, and cross your fingers that a whole bunch of chemicals are being produced in her body.
Then, win her over with your charm to deepen the positive feelings she has towards you. Use this technique on every date you go on to make sure she keeps producing those feel-good chemicals around you.
Don’t be scared to make eye contact either. If you are, and you look at her forehead or her nose to pretend like you are making eye contact, it will NOT have the same effect. You have to look into her eyes.
Try to keep the eye contact to a minimum of 75% of the conversation. Any more and you will get creepy, any less and you may not have the effect you want.
Your Pupil Size Is Important!
A romantic setting with dim lights and candles does more than just create a romantic mood, it creates romantic pupils!
It has been proven that the larger your pupils are, the sexier you are to someone else. One study showed participants two pictures of the same person. In one picture the person’s pupils were slightly larger, and that is the picture that got a better response from men and women alike.
So, how can you take advantage of this tip? Well, it is not likely to happen on command. To be honest, I don’t know if that is possible. I’m sure it is, but if you try to force your pupils to dilate, you may end up doing something weird like opening your eyes too wide or blinking too much or some other weird, creepy eye thing.
So, keep the following things in mind.
Any attractive or emotional image will dilate your pupils. For example, if you see a picture of a sexy woman, your pupils will become instantly larger. Therefore, look for images that excite you and then look back at a woman to take advantage of your dilated pupils!
When she looks away, look at her lips, breast, ass, or whatever else excites you. You can even picture yourself doing something to her, like spanking her in the bedroom or whatever else gets you excited. Then, when she looks back, your pupils will be bigger.
Plan your date to be in a dimly light room. When you are in low light, or no light, your pupils get bigger. This is because the pupil gets larger or smaller to let in different amounts of light. So when it is darker, your pupils get bigger to let in more light, and when it is light, your pupils get smaller to let in less light. Candlelight dinners have an extra advantage now! As a caveat: Know that when you are in bright light, your pupils will get smaller.
Doing something scary can increase your pupil size. This happens because you need to see what is happening in order to protect yourself, so your pupils get bigger to let in more light and help you see where you are going. So going for a walk in a scary place may make your pupil size increase. It may also be too scary to make eye contact for a long period of time!
Putting your focus on something far away will also help you grow your pupils. They naturally adjust to be able to properly view the object or person in the distant.
I hope you have a new appreciation for eye contact now. If you weren’t making enough of it before, remember that it is the best way to get her excited and attracted to you, and if you can increase the size of your pupils, then you can add to that excitement and attraction.
