Are you interested in knowing how a woman thinks on the first date? You should be! If you understand what she is thinking about, then you can make sure you answer all of her questions and leave her wanting a second date with you – which is your goal, if you like here.
Top 5 Questions A Woman Has On The First Date

She won’t outright tell you what she is thinking on the first date, but I can guarantee that one or all of the following questions are in her mind. Moreover, she is studying you, listening to you, and collecting evidence to help her answer her concerns.
1. Is He An Asshole?
I’ve been on many first dates where the guy seemed nice but turned out to be an asshole after I started to like him and get more involved with him. Hindsight sucks, but believe me, I started to look for signs of an asshole on the first date so I didn’t get caught up in anything negative for too long.
I’m not the only woman who has been duped by a guy, and I’m not the only woman who has much stricter standards now.
The thing is that women learn what to watch for, and if they see signs of an asshole, they may move on.
An asshole is:
- Selfish
- Rude
- Impatient
- High tempered
- A bully
- Arrogant
If you show any warning signs of being an asshole on the first date, a woman will spot them and become more hesitant of you and your potential with her.
2. Is He Going To Hurt Me?
I’m not talking about cheating or playing around, I’m talking about beating her up, raping her, or mentally abusing her.
Women have to be careful in the dating scene. This is a fact. According to statistics, every 2 minutes, another American is sexually assaulted.
I live in Canada, and according to Canadian statistics on violence, half of all women have experienced phy