Even though the first and second date are the most talked about, the third date is just as important in its own special way.
There used to be an old myth that if things were going to go wrong in a relationship, it would be on the number 3: third date, 3-month anniversary, or 3-year anniversary. While that is really just a myth, the third date really is where it can all fall apart if you are not careful.
The third date is kind of in between awkwardness and relationship. You are not new to each other, but you are not in a territory yet where you can be totally relaxed with each other.
So, sticking with the 3 theme – following are a few things to keep in mind to make it all work out.
Note: If you haven’t had the first date yet, then you will also want to read How To Win A Woman Over In 5 Dates.
1. Don’t Express Sexist Or Hateful Views – Even If It’s A Joke
I was reading an article titled, Why I’ll Never Date A Man Who Isn’t A Feminist Again, and her points made it really clear that many men tell her that they have an inner feminist, but show their true colors early on while they are dating.
You can solve this by being honest about your opinions and beliefs right from the beginning, but you should also be very careful about how you talk – especially on your earlier dates, such as your third date.
A joke that made your friends laugh may not have the same impact on a woman you are just getting to know. She doesn’t know that you are joking. In fact, she doesn’t know you well enough to really have a good feel for your beliefs and values.
A sexist or hateful comment about anything, in anger or as a joke, can make your third date your last date. You have to pay attention to your words and what you say.
By the way, emotional intelligence can go a long way for this.
2. Don’t Act Like You Are In A Relationship
The third date should be about creating more of a connection between the two of you, but some people think that if they have made date number 3, they are already in a relationship and can act a little too touchy or be a little too personal.
You can’t!
You also can’t act possessive over a woman. She has not become your girlfriend yet, and you have no say over who she talks to, flirts with, or anything else. Just as she has no say over you. If yo