As I watch another fat, ugly guy walk by with a beautiful woman, I can’t help but think about the fact that women are constantly judged by their appearance and – even though men seem to think they are judged all the time by appearance – they have MUCH more wiggle room in the appearance department.
I know that to be true. You know that to be true. You only have to look out your window and see how many conventionally unattractive guys get conventionally attract women.
Women are judged so much on their appearance that most of them develop horrible body image issues that stick with them for life. For instance, they think they are fat, even when they are not, and then they spend all their time dieting, working out, and obsessing about themselves, while their men get fatter and unhealthier.
Case in point: My sister-in-law has spent the past few years trying to look perfect for her husband. She has had three of his kids, obsessed about her weight, gained a ton, lost a ton, and has become ridiculous with food to the point that she obsessed over eating one piece of cake at her kid’s birthday party. He’s a fat piece of shit and he’s never changed. And, after all that obsession about being attractive for him, she just found out he’s been cheating on her with his ex.
I’m not saying that guys are NOT judged by their appearance – I’m just saying that guys have it a lot easier in the looks department than woman do.
But, You ARE Being Judged In Many Other Ways
Even though guys can be uglier and fatter than women, they are still judged by a lot of different things. That’s where the scale tips back and influences how women really view them.
As Phil says, “Women judge by appearances – eg if you have an old car means they will drive away.”
THAT is very true. The first impression you make, as well as the second, third, and even fourth impression, can have a lot of weight on whether or not a woman will want you.
Think Of It Like An Attraction Point System
Women will judge on your car, clothes, haircut, body art, wallet, the way you talk, and even how you carry yo