Sometimes people’s eyes get wide when I tell them that I’m a psychologist who studies dreams, and … [Read more...] about Wake Up! Dreams and Relationships (Part 1 of 2)
Research Spotlight
Men: Play Guitar to Get a Date?
I was recently talking to a (male) friend from college, reminiscing about how all the guys in the … [Read more...] about Men: Play Guitar to Get a Date?
Building a Better Breakup Song
Remember the epidsode of The Office when, after getting dumped, Michael listens to the iTunes … [Read more...] about Building a Better Breakup Song
Do People Get Better Looking When the Bar is About to Close?
(Reposted from The Psychology of Human Sexuality) What happens when something is only available for … [Read more...] about Do People Get Better Looking When the Bar is About to Close?
Shave It Off! Baldness Boosts Your Manly Image
Bald may or may not be beautiful, but it definitely is manly according to recent … [Read more...] about Shave It Off! Baldness Boosts Your Manly Image
Bring Out the Gimp: Personality & BDSM
Let’s play a quick word association game – read each word or phrase below and say the first thing … [Read more...] about Bring Out the Gimp: Personality & BDSM
I Dislike the Dog that Likes the Rabbit that I Dislike: Why Do We Like Some People but Dislike Others?
The notion that people prefer similar others is as empirically-validated a research finding as they … [Read more...] about I Dislike the Dog that Likes the Rabbit that I Dislike: Why Do We Like Some People but Dislike Others?
The Benefits and Risks of Growing Close: Relationship Matters Podcast #23
In the 23rd installment of Sage’s Relationship Matters podcast, hosted by Dr. Bjarne Holmes of … [Read more...] about The Benefits and Risks of Growing Close: Relationship Matters Podcast #23
Do the Daily Sacrifices We Make in Relationships Make Us Happier? Relationship Matters Podcast #22
In the 22nd installment of Sage’s Relationship Matters podcast, hosted by Dr. … [Read more...] about Do the Daily Sacrifices We Make in Relationships Make Us Happier? Relationship Matters Podcast #22
Facebook and Relationship Development: It’s Complicated (Part 2)
Part 1 of this article described a recent study published in the Journal of Social and Personal … [Read more...] about Facebook and Relationship Development: It’s Complicated (Part 2)
Facebook and Relationship Development: It’s Complicated (Part 1)
Whether you like it or not, Facebook has become a central part of young people’s lives: about 75% of … [Read more...] about Facebook and Relationship Development: It’s Complicated (Part 1)
Is There Really a Benefit to Being Nice to Others? Relationship Matters Podcast #21
In the 21st installment of Sage’s Relationship Matters podcast, hosted by Dr. Bjarne … [Read more...] about Is There Really a Benefit to Being Nice to Others? Relationship Matters Podcast #21
Here’s the Punchline: The Link between Humor and Hotness
Chad Michael Murray, the actor from One Tree Hill, once said, “To all the girls out there who think … [Read more...] about Here’s the Punchline: The Link between Humor and Hotness
To Self-Disclose or Not to Self-Disclose? Relationship Matters Podcast #20
In the 20th installment of Sage’s Relationship Matters podcast, hosted by Dr. Bjarne Holmes of … [Read more...] about To Self-Disclose or Not to Self-Disclose? Relationship Matters Podcast #20
Tag, We’re It: How Facebook Reveals Information about Current (and Past) Relationships
You know those people on Facebook who tag their romantic partners in every…single…post? Or how about … [Read more...] about Tag, We’re It: How Facebook Reveals Information about Current (and Past) Relationships
Everyone Needs an Enemy
February has come and gone, and, fortunately (for some), the Valentine’s Day craze has left with it. … [Read more...] about Everyone Needs an Enemy
Insecure Attachment and Real vs. Perceived Threat in Relationships: Relationship Matters Podcast #19
Sage’s Relationship Matters podcast, hosted by Dr. Bjarne Holmes of Champlain College, … [Read more...] about Insecure Attachment and Real vs. Perceived Threat in Relationships: Relationship Matters Podcast #19
Firewood, Rice, and Fairy Tales: Ideas about Love in the US and China
“Marriage is mostly just firewood, rice, oil, soy sauce, vinegar, and tea.” -Chinese … [Read more...] about Firewood, Rice, and Fairy Tales: Ideas about Love in the US and China
“Wanna Go to Bed With Me?” (a.k.a. “Get Away from Me, Creep” vs. “Where Do I Sign Up?”)
What if you were sitting at a café, the park, or a beer garden (the latter being where you’re most … [Read more...] about “Wanna Go to Bed With Me?” (a.k.a. “Get Away from Me, Creep” vs. “Where Do I Sign Up?”)
Are You the Jealous Type?
Jealousy can be a very painful and destructive emotion. People typically feel jealous when they … [Read more...] about Are You the Jealous Type?


















