Did your first date with a woman suck in terms of sexual chemistry? If you answered yes, then you are thinking one of two things:
- I never want to go out with her again! (If this is the case, don’t go out with her again.)
- Should I go out with her again?
There are a lot of reasons that you should be considering going out with her again. For instance:
- Initially there was a lot of sexual attraction so it doesn’t make sense that it wasn’t there on the first date
- She seems like a really nice woman and you want there to be an attraction
- You are wondering if the date was just an off day between the two of you
Note: If you feel like going out with her again solely because you are lonely and desperately want to have that sexual chemistry with a woman, than your attitude may be the reason there is no chemistry. (See below.)
Should You Go Out Again?
Unless you felt repelled by her, you should absolutely give her a second chance.
If you didn’t kiss her, then there is a chance that there is a lot of chemistry there that you have not found yet.
This should go without saying, but if you kissed her and felt like you were kissing your sister, then don’t go out again! That’s not a good sign.
Biggest Reason Why There Would Be A Lack Of Sexual Chemistry
If you have a bad day, week, or month, or if she has a bad day, week, or month, then that chemistry can be affected negatively.
Chemistry has to do with the spark or energy between the two of you, and if either of your energy is vibrating at a low, dull, or angry level, then you can’t expect a sexual connection to be there. Nobody feels turned on in or around that state of energy.
When it comes to energy and its role in connection, think of your best friend. If you are both feeling good, then the connection between the two of you is probably high and you are happy to be best friend