There are some miserable, picky women out there who reject almost every man they see. But the majority of women are pretty open to men when it comes to physical looks among other things. However, there are some reasons that almost all women will NOT be attracted to a man and reject him.
Arrogance Is Not Sexy To Any Woman
In my twenties, I knew a guy who thought he was god’s gift to women. He was so arrogant! That guy is still single to this day (he is in his forties!). In other words, this is a huge reason why women reject men.
Yes, confidence can get you a woman in the beginning, but if you are arrogant, you are going to irritate her, annoy her, and push her away. No woman wants to be with a cocky, arrogant man for the rest of her life. How fun would that be?
You appear arrogant when you:
- Think you are better than other people
- Act like a know-it-all when talking to other people
- Act like you have a woman in the bag
- Make decisions for a woman without considering her feelings
- Talk about yourself all the time
- Boast about your achievements repeatedly
- Focus on yourself more than anyone else
All of these things are completely unattractive to a woman and will ultimately send any woman running from you at one point or another. Therefore, if you feel like you may be coming across arrogant, it is time to tone it down.
Remember that you are not the only person in this world, and other people have needs, feelings, and desires, just like you. You may want to volunteer somewhere, to help you gain a more worldly view, or you may just want to become more self-aware (pay attention to your words, actions, and people’s reactions to you) so that you can step out of your bubble and see how other people view you.
A Victim Mentality Will Make You A Victim With Women
On the flip side, if you have a victim mentality, where you think everything bad happens to you, then you are going to be very unattractive to women. You will be rejected by women over and over again.
A victim will:
- Put himself down
- Talk negatively about his life
- Act like life is supposed to be hard
- Walk around slumped over and defeated
- Avoid going for things he wants because he already ‘knows’ it won’t work out
- Use negative and defeating words, such as can’t, shouldn’t, and won’t
- Complain about everything from the weather to the food
A man who acts like a victim would be a drag for any woman. She would constantly have to build up his self-esteem and ‘mother’ him throughout their relationship. That does not make him an attractive partner for life in any woman’s eyes.
Getting out of a victim mentality means that you have to talk to yourself in a different way. Instead of talking to yourself negatively, you need to find the positive aspect of life and say more positive things about yourself and the world around you.
Think of it this way: Your thinking causes you to act in certain ways, which causes you to have certain emotions and feelings, which causes you to interpret experiences either negatively or positively.
In short, if you start off with negative thinking, then negative experiences are in your path. But, if you start out with positive thinking, then positive experiences are more likely to appear.
Once you ditch the victim mentality, women will see the potential you have to make their life happier. And, as a result, you will have a better chance at getting a woman you want.
Your Awkwardness Makes Women Awkward
If you are extremely awkward around women, then they WILL feel awkward around you. Women are looking for men who make them feel comfortable and at ease, not awkward. That is why this is a huge reason that women reject men.
If you find that you put your foot in your mouth a lot, get physically uncoordinated around women, and lose the words you want to say when talking to women, then you are probably sending off an awkward vibe.
The only way to fix an awkward attitude towards women is to get more confident in yourself. The only way to get more confident is to learn about women, understand what they want, and put your knowledge to practice.
The bad news is that you will not change today. But, the good news is that it is completely possible to stop being awkward around women. One step at a time will help you become the confident man that attracts women easily.
In the end, there are 3 MAIN reasons that women are not attracted to men, and it has nothing to do with looks. Men who are arrogant, or act like a victim, or are extremely awkward, will consistently turn off women and get rejected.
