It may be hard to believe, but I was once in a relationship for nine years where I was so unhappy, I … [Read more...] about Should I Stay or Should I Go?: Why Good People Stay in Bad Relationships
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Women And Men Are Different: You Need To Understand That To Succeed With Women
At the core, we all want the same things: happiness, love, and a fun life, but men and women are … [Read more...] about Women And Men Are Different: You Need To Understand That To Succeed With Women
Approaching Women Habits You Need To Break Now
There are some habits that are used by many men to approach women - and used, and used, and...well, … [Read more...] about Approaching Women Habits You Need To Break Now
I Think, Therefore You’re Satisfied
You: “I’m sorry I was late picking you up today…” Your partner responds: … [Read more...] about I Think, Therefore You’re Satisfied
“I Wanna Hold Your Hand”…But I Can’t
To hold or not to hold…hands, that is. When you’re in a relationship, are you a hand-holder, or do … [Read more...] about “I Wanna Hold Your Hand”…But I Can’t
I Would Do Anything for Love, but I Don’t Have…Self-Control
Though partners in satisfying relationships tend to be similar to one another, they rarely agree on … [Read more...] about I Would Do Anything for Love, but I Don’t Have…Self-Control
App Review: Brownie Points
There are a number of apps out there that are designed to help people find, keep, and cultivate … [Read more...] about App Review: Brownie Points
Four Tips for Navigating Long-Distance Relationships
Editors' note: Last week, Dr. Andy Merolla responded to a reader's question about distance in … [Read more...] about Four Tips for Navigating Long-Distance Relationships
Getting It On vs. Getting It Over With: How Reasons for Having Sex Impact Relationships (Part 2)
In a recent article, I discussed my research using fictional scenarios to show that perceptions of … [Read more...] about Getting It On vs. Getting It Over With: How Reasons for Having Sex Impact Relationships (Part 2)
Distance and Relationships: “Stuck in the Middle with You”
Q: A lot of research has been done on long distance relationships, and internet articles abound with … [Read more...] about Distance and Relationships: “Stuck in the Middle with You”
Getting It On vs. Getting It Over With: How Reasons for Having Sex Impact Relationships (Part 1)
Sex plays an important role in overall relationship happiness.1 But, is simply having sex enough to … [Read more...] about Getting It On vs. Getting It Over With: How Reasons for Having Sex Impact Relationships (Part 1)
Getting PREPAREd for and ENRICHing Marriage
As my wedding draws closer, I find myself immersed in a number of nuptial planning activities. There … [Read more...] about Getting PREPAREd for and ENRICHing Marriage
Wake Up! How Dreams Influence Relationships (Part 2)
Recently, I wrote that dreaming about close people in your life can reveal aspects of your … [Read more...] about Wake Up! How Dreams Influence Relationships (Part 2)
Beyond Boyfriend/Girlfriend: The Search for Another Label of Love
I have been dating The Consultant for over a year now, and we have been discussing moving in … [Read more...] about Beyond Boyfriend/Girlfriend: The Search for Another Label of Love
The Rules of Deception in Romance
In the acclaimed TV drama Breaking Bad, high school chemistry teacher Walter White has a big … [Read more...] about The Rules of Deception in Romance
How Sleep Influences Your Relationship
How did you sleep last night? Did you wake up this morning feeling refreshed and energized, or were … [Read more...] about How Sleep Influences Your Relationship
The Best Trait to Look for in a Mate (and Three Ways to Spot it)
As a relationships researcher, a question that I get a lot from my single friends is, “What should I … [Read more...] about The Best Trait to Look for in a Mate (and Three Ways to Spot it)
Wake Up! Dreams and Relationships (Part 1 of 2)
Sometimes people’s eyes get wide when I tell them that I’m a psychologist who studies dreams, and … [Read more...] about Wake Up! Dreams and Relationships (Part 1 of 2)
Have We Been Dating Too Long?
I've been in a relationship for over 5 years. We are both still young and plan to get … [Read more...] about Have We Been Dating Too Long?
Likes Attract, But Do They Last? The Role of Self-Control
Partners’ level of similarity in their values, backgrounds, and life goals promotes attraction and … [Read more...] about Likes Attract, But Do They Last? The Role of Self-Control






















